Why More MA + NH Couples Are Choosing First Looks on Their Wedding Day

As a Massachusetts wedding photographer, one of the most common questions I get from couples is: Should we do a first look or wait for the traditional aisle reveal?

Honestly? There’s no wrong answer. This is your day, and the decision should reflect what feels most meaningful to you. But since I’ve photographed countless weddings across stunning venues like Four Oaks Country Club in Dracut, Misselwood in Beverly, and Glen Magna Farms in Danvers, I’ve seen firsthand how impactful a first look can be both emotionally and logistically.

So let’s talk through it! Here’s why more and more couples are choosing to do a first look (and why it might be worth considering for your day too).

First Looks = A More Relaxed Timeline

Wedding days move fast, and a first look can help everything flow so much more smoothly. Seeing each other before the ceremony gives us more flexibility in your timeline, especially if the weather has other plans. We can knock out wedding party photos early, take our time with couple portraits, and avoid cramming everything into a tight post-ceremony window.

At venues like Misselwood Estate, where the light by the water can shift quickly, having that extra breathing room in the schedule is chef’s kiss. It allows us to take advantage of dreamy lighting and beautiful backdrops without rushing.

It’s Still Just As Emotional (Promise!)

Some couples worry that a first look will take away from the emotional moment of seeing each other walk down the aisle. But here’s the thing: It’s often even more emotional. With just the two of you (and me quietly capturing it from a distance!), you can really soak in the moment. No crowd, no nerves, just that deep “OMG we’re doing this” feeling.

More Time for Photos = More Time at Cocktail Hour

I had a wedding at The Barn on the Pemi in Plymouth, NH where the couple skipped the first look and the bus got delayed, which cut into their portrait time and cocktail hour. While we still got amazing photos, having that earlier buffer would have made things way less stressful.

Doing a first look means we can capture all those important photos ahead of time, so after the ceremony, you can actually enjoy cocktail hour!

You Get a Moment for Just the Two of You

Wedding days are a whirlwind! Between hugging relatives, coordinating with your vendors, and making sure everything runs on time, it’s easy to get swept up in the schedule. A first look gives you a few quiet minutes to breathe, connect, and remind each other what the day is really about.

At places like Glen Magna Farms, with its lush gardens and tucked-away spots, first looks can feel like a secret getaway in the middle of the celebration.

So… Should You Do a First Look?

It comes down to what matters most to you. If you’ve always dreamed of that walk-down-the-aisle moment? Go for it. I’ll be ready with tissues!

But if you’re looking for a little extra calm in your day, more time for portraits, or just a private moment together before the party starts, a first look might be the perfect fit.

As your Massachusetts wedding photographer, I’m here to support whatever choice feels right for you and to make sure it’s captured beautifully either way. 

Reach out to me and let’s start designing a wedding day timeline that’s relaxed, joyful, and totally you!